My ex and I broke up two months ago after a little over than 6 months of a really great relationship. We never argued and had really great times together. She felt that her feelings had changed, and felt it wouldn’t be fair to me if we kept it going. We have several classes together, but finals are coming up, and I just don’t know how to approach her and say good bye before vacation starts…deep down I know i’m going to miss her for the month, and that I still have feelings for her…but i tried approaching her about it 5-6 weeks ago and she told me to move on, not to wait, and that she did not want to give me any false hope. But lately, we’ve been working together on projects and one time i asked if she wanted to take afterwards to get coffee with me and we took a walk..and had a great warm conversation about eachother…it was very personal…and almost felt like we were going out again, to me I felt that at least.
And recently I was stressed out with work in certain subjects, and she offered to help. Unfortunaetly the times she offered were not compatible to mine, and in result the time i was available was during an event she wanted to attend. She told me to call her then and that we’d work together on what i had trouble on. I told her that i didn’t want her to skip out on that event because i knew how much it meant to her, but she insisted, and was very firm about it….demanding that I’d call her that night and we’d get everything done. That night she was telling me randomly tha she had no idea what she was going to do afterwards because she had all her assignments done and had nothing to do…but i didn’t know if it was a hint or not and i suggested maybe studying for finals because she’s a very student-oriented person, but she gave the “haha nooo..” answer. Afterwards she asked if i was doing anything that night, but I answered “just working on a paper.” Was this a hint? help please?
sex was not a factor in any of this….we’re both pretty religious, enough we planned on waiting until after marriage, but we were pretty intimate other than that…
Is there any potential of us getting back together? If so how? Also with christmas coming up…i’m not sure what to do…i’m just so used to getting hugs from her and getting a small thing for the holidays….i got her a card, but to make things not so awkward…i got her friends next door cards too….but i had to slide hers under the door since she wasn’t there… :-/ and she sent me an email saying thank you and she loved the card saying it was adorable… :-/ *sigh*
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Jeri Tarot Says:
Ok, you have built up a lot of history with her and this is a good thing since it will work in your favor. The chances of things becoming reawakened between you two are good because of this.
I feel though that you should expect the unexpected because good things can come in ways we don’t necessarily expect – especially while we’re focused on the thing we think we want! You are in a phase of change right now (in your personal world) and you should be open to things going in a radically diff. direction than you might have been expecting.
You are right on course in your life – so keep things positive. Keep giving your ex the cues that you want her back in your life (try not to be overly heavy handed) and keep your mind open for the unexpected…
Hope this helps!
