Is ignoring your ex girlfriend really the best way to get her back? Many people will tell you this isn’t the right approach to take but it does work. If you are a man who is still in love with a former girlfriend and you’d love to get another chance with her, you’ve probably already tried several different methods to win back her heart. If that’s the case, you may just want to try ignoring her. Although this may go against everything your heart and mind is telling you to do, it actually does work. You can reignite her interest in you if you pay less and less attention to her.
The reason why ignoring your ex girlfriend works so well to get her back is simple. After a break up there’s one emotion that overpowers all the others. That emotion is the feeling of rejection. It’s what you’re experiencing right now and it’s what drives you to do just about anything to get your girlfriend back. There’s a desperation that accompanies rejection and there’s only two ways to rid yourself of that feeling. One is to be patient and let time take control until you reach a point where the break up is just a distant memory. The other approach is to try and get your ex back. If you start ignoring your girlfriend, you’ll actually be shifting the feeling of rejection from yourself onto her.
It’s human nature to want the things we can’t have. This starts when we’re infants and just gets progressively worse as we age. If you are suddenly completely unavailable to your ex girlfriend, her interest will be kicked into high gear. If she knows you still love her, she’ll be expecting you to create a fuss about the break up. She’ll be anticipating you calling her and texting her repeatedly in an effort to win her back. If you don’t do that, if you suddenly stop contacting her completely, she’ll feel a void in her life that only you can fill. You do need to be serious about this though. If you’re going to take the route of ignoring her, do it completely. Don’t waver and send her a message from time-to-time. Stay strong and stay clear of her. Before you know it she’ll be reaching out to talk to you again.
