Question by Mark: What to do about my ex?
Hi everyone thanks for reading and helping , me and my ex were together for 1 year and everything was better than perfect, everyone was jealous but in the good way of how in love and happy we were, we had the problem with my ex wanting me back and annoying her but said I’m not going to let her win even when she was trying to split us up by telling her I’d sleeped with her which I hadn’t and the night she acused that was a night I was with my girlfriend lol, I was quite insecure at first and need reassurance a lot and she got fed up with it a few times but always forgive me, she always said aslong as your sorry ill always forgive you which she did, we moved in together a couple of months ago, now we both have 5 yr olds mine is a boy and hers a girl we did things together and with the kids and my boy was quite mean sometimes with her daughter but she could give it back but she always cried which wound my ex up and she let it go on for a bit before she said ought I just thought there kids and they will learn to get on with each other, another thing was 3 months ago she had a letzs treatment where they cut some of the cervix away and that stopped us being intimate for 2 months and when we tried it just bled and she was unhappy with herself and that she didn’t feel like a good girl friend she got upset and cried a few times cos she thought she wud lose me which i promised I wouldnt , now what has happened and the reason we split is manly kids not getting on but she’s been different lately to getting really nasty when drunk saying.she never loved me or.anything and that she wants a man with a title ie, fireman police man etc even tho I earn more or.just as much she’s started saying I’ve no get up and go, and yet a month ago she couldn’t be without me, anyways so we split up but stayed in same house I said sorry and she said we wud go on the holiday we booked together with kids and see how it goes the holiday went really well kids were a lot better and we had a laugh I
Asked her about us and she said let’s wait till we get home anyways when we got home I didn’t say anything and left it and 2 days later she sat next to me and said sorry she was an idiot and really wanted us to work so i was chuffed anyways the day after I had an email of hers on my phone cos unused her email addresse and she had a Facebook email saying such and such accepted your friens request and it happened to be an x from years ago and she said she only added him cos of a girl who added me cos she thought she was an x which she wasn’t so then she went on to say I was sneaking around and she can’t trust me so we split again then on the Monday morning I dropped her off at work and daughter at school to then receive a text off her when I got to work saying, I do want you but i dont know for how long and i asked what she meant and she said she was confused and didnt know what she wanted and i asked her about what she said on the Saturday night when she was drunk saying she never loved
Me or fancied me or anything and she said she meant it, so i said ill be gone Tuesday and she just said ok so on the Tuesday when she went work I moved what I cud to my folks, anyways the letter I sent her she has kept for some reason cos i saw it this Tuesday when i got more things, I don’t knowbwhat to do cos she is confused I think but don’t know if I should try with her or leave it cos she dosent like my kid because of his mum but is it cos her heads a mess I don’t know because I do love her more than anything and we always talked about marriage and and things and then this happend what does everyone think sorry about the spelling and writting doing it all from my phone thanks everyone
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Answer by Cassy
I think she is feeling insecure and perhaps has pushed you away. If you really want to be with her, try persuing her like you did when you first met.
Kids are kids and put them in their place. They will eventually start playing nicely.
Good Luck!
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