If you’re still crazy about your ex should you tell her you still love her or not? The answer may surprise you. Telling a woman that you recently split with that you’re still wild about her may result in you losing her forever. Even though your inner instinct is telling you to pour your heart out to her, don’t do it. The reason why this approach may be disastrous is simple. Your ex needs some space after the break up to sort through what she’s feeling and if you proclaim your undying love and devotion you put her in a very difficult spot. Not only will she feel cornered she may also decide that you’re desperate and if that happens, getting her back becomes even more challenging.
Many men mistakenly think that if they tell their ex they love her that she’ll instantly forget the reasons for the break up and all wrongdoings will be forgotten. Unfortunately, life doesn’t work this way. There is something you should tell your ex girlfriend if you hope to get her back though. Apologizing to her will go a lot farther than telling her that you still love her will. The reason apologizing is so important is that it shows her that you are emotionally mature enough to not only handle taking responsibility for your part of the break up, but that you also recognize and accept that the relationship has changed. If you can do this, you’re already on your way to winning her back.
Most men also don’t fully realize the true impact of a little distance and how that can positively affect their ex girlfriend’s feelings. You will make her more inclined to want you back if you’re not constantly contacting her begging for another chance. Give her some space and allow her some time to miss you. Once a woman starts to feel a man’s absence in her life it reminds her of the wonderful moments they shared. She remembers his voice and how nice it felt when he held her. Most of the negative thoughts and emotions get overrun by thoughts of how good the relationship used to be and how close you two were. Making her feel these things can only be accomplished by not talking to her, so make a pledge to yourself to stay away from her for the next few days. It will pay off when she calls you up reaching out for a connection again.
