Question by heartbroken: my boyfriend of a year & half brokeup with me. Any ideas,songs,quotes to get him back or just get through it?
i am sixteen years old and have been dating my boyfriend for a year a half. we have been through everything together. i was new at my school and he showed me around and helped me fit in. we dated for five months and he broke up with me for his ex-girlfriend. i was devastated. i cried for weeks and couldn’t bare to look at them together. we got back together a month later and were completely strong for the next couple months. we got into a huge argument in the beginning of the summer when he discovered i was talking to one of his friends while we were broken up. he dumped me for a day and hooked up with his ex again. we went back out the next day and got through everything. the next couple weeks my parents were arguing every night, and his house burned down. we were there for each other every night. and we became best friends. in august he was at a party and cheated on me. we hung out the whole week and he never told me. i found out from his ex-girlfriend. he denied the cheating but finally admitted it after hours. i was so angry but still managed to say i love you that night. we spent every day together the rest of the summer. and got back on the right path together. we did everything together. no matter what he said or did to me i forgave him and accepted his apology, after all the mean things he had done i said i love you everyday to him. i was the only trying in the relationship for awhile. til finally one day we sat down and i broke down in tears and he realized all the pain he had caused me. after this he put in a lot of effort. he told me he would marry me one day. we talked about growing old together. he would cry over me. he would die for me. we have had our share of fights but almost all were on his part and i forgave him every time. we have been good all year with about three little arguments. we stayed together the school year. it is now summer and he drank again at a party. i wasn’t mad or anything. i just warned him that the bullshit last summer wasn’t happening this summer. well the argument escalated and i said do you want to be single all summer? he said no and that he loved me. he then said your more on my back then my own mother and i said that’s not a fair comparison you didn’t cheat on your mom like you did me. he flipped out and started yelling saying he was done with me. now we are on a break and could potentially be done. i don’t know if i should wait for him or just break it off. i cant live without him and if he can go a week without me he doesn’t Truly love me but then another part of me says maybe we just need time a part we have been together for awhile some time alone could be helpful. i called him and tried to make things right he doesn’t wanna talk to me for the week at all and doesn’t know if he will even after a week. he said what i said was very low. and he doesn’t want it in his life. i didn’t mean anything by what i said i was trying to say don’t compare me to your mom i have a different relationship with you then you and your mom do. i wasn’t trying to hurt him in any way. he wont let me come over in fact he said he was at his cousins last night so i couldn’t see him when i saw him with his friends. he bought me a promise ring for the summer and told me it was me and him all summer and nothing would get in the way of us celebrating our two years together. now he says well shit happens. if anyone has any quotes, songs, or ideas to help me win him back or just get over him it is much appreciated. i am absolutely heartbroken. i love him to death, and always will. i have never walked out on him and he always walks out on me. i cant go a min. without thinking of him and it always looks like he doesn’t care. deep down i know he does but then how can he look me in the face and play these games with me. please help.
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Answer by Amanda Massacre
This really touched me.
Before I get into details about your situation, let me just say this:
Move on. You’ll be better off. You deserve so much better than that. Trust me. No matter how much you love him, he is going to continue acting this way and hurting you.
I went through almost the same exact thing with my ex boyfriend. He lied to me and cheated on me so many times. Each time, I forgave him. But he just kept hurting me and calling me names and just putting me down. But I always stuck by his side because I loved him so much.
After about the 28th breakup, I just told him to go to hell and I left for good.
I was really depressed after everything he put me through and I ended up in the hospital (I wanted to end my life because I just couldn’t handle my past with him.)
That was over a year ago.
Not a day goes by that I don’t still think about him. That boy will always by in my heart.
But I can admit that I’m so much more happier away from all the drama and heartache.
Now after all this time, I finally met a guy who I really like and who likes me back a lot and we’re gonna start dating soon. (He is moving and stuff, so after the move, we’re gonna start dating.)
But trust me, I know it hurts and that you love him more than anything, but you don’t deserve it.
Don’t wait until its too late and you’re even more heart broken.
Some songs that got me through my break up with my ex are as follows:
Three Days Grace – Gone Forever
Three Days Grace – Last To Know
Five Finger Death Punch – The Bleeding
Motionless in White – To Keep From Getting Burned
The Motionless in White song is a screamo song, but the lyrics to that song have a very strong message.
To save you the trouble, here are the lyrics to that song 
No amount of words will ever express my utter disgust at that fact that you’re still alive, at the fact that you still breath.
If I had one chance to do anything i could to you, I’d watch you suffer as you beg for help.
You don’t deserve to live the rest of your life as you are, you are worthless.
A f*cking cheap cigar.
Everything that you ever loved will be taken away, the moment you shut your eyes.
Of all the things you’ve ever done, the worst was in the past few months. I
t’s hard to keep from getting burned, when love is like fire.
I’ve learned to make friends with fire, to keep from getting burned.
I only had one heart to give, and you only had one heart to take.
And I wish this plague upon both your houses, so that I may rest in peace tonight.
As I put my ear to your mouth to hear your one last dying breath of words, I whispered back be still my dear for this will only hurt a second.
Not even hell would forgive me for what I’m about to do to you.
Love will kill us all
I wish you the best of luck whatever you may choose.
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