Question by DDWVDD: How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?
Alright Yahoo. I need some help.
I’m a nice looking 22 year old college student who has been daiting a beautiful young 19 year old girl for almost 2 years now. Before we started dating we were close friends for over 6 months and have been through hell and back for each other. Our bond for each other was extremely close. She decided to come to the same college that I went to just to be close to me. We started dating weeks into her arriving to college.
Things were great, we had our ups and our downs. I had some small legal issues when I was 18 and her parents didn’t like the fact that I had to go to court for something very dumb. Just a dumb drunk thing some of my frat brothers did. So they disliked me after liking me for a year.
Now the school year just ended and on the last night she told me we had to talk, and she broke up with me. She told me she still loves me but looks at me as too much like a best friend and is confused. I filled the void of her best friend she lost while in High School. We both truly love each other but what do I do. How do I win my ex-girlfriend back. I know all the tricks to keep her around if she was here, but she’s gone for the whole summer and I’m 15 hours away. Please if you have some good advice on how to win her back please feel free to answer this. I truly believe that this girl is the one and I love her so much. Mature comments only:
Best answer:
Answer by Rondo<33
Just really tell her how you feel. You can’t try the tricks to win her back, they don’t work sometimes. So don’t take the risk of losing someone you love when the answer is right in front of your eyes.
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6 Responses
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Miss Whimsi Says:
You should take the 15 hour trip to see her. That in it of itself shows how much you care for her. Confess to her what you’ve told all of us, and see what happens. If she stands firm on her decision of the breakup, than perhaps you two aren’t destined to be together. But you never know what will happen. Your initiative could reaffirm her love.
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Jenny Says:
Keep in contact with her I dont doubt the love you have for her.
She is clearly being brainwashed by her parents why would she wait 2 years to tell you this?
A bf can be a best friend and a lover
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Anya Piskorowski Says:
text her and tell her to have a good day or just let her no your thinking about her. and remind her of all the good times you had when you were together. but don’t be too clingy.
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Trikita Cookie Says:
alright, dear good looking 22 year old..
i think she needs space, dont go running after her in the summer holidays, she needs her space to relax and think deeply about it, because you can really think abuut hte other person when you dont talk to much to them…call her sometimes, but not 24 7, okay?when you both get back to the collage, you can see if you are deeply and madly misst and still in love with each other…okay?
and good luck, you really do love her!
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lea Says:
I think the best thing to do is not to smother her, when a girl says that it basically means that your relationship is lacking the drama and passion it did. I think the best thing to do is make her miss you. Its a little immature but I think in this situation its the best thing you can do. Seem like you are doing good, make your face book look like everything is going your way, maybe text her the first week or so and then completely stop. and then if she starts talking to you be stand off-ish. even though this is risky, it almost always makes a girl second guess her decision. This might not be the best long term fix, but if you can get her interested again and keep things exciting in the relationship as it progresses then it might fix it. Being hot and cold is frustrating but at the end of the day it usually gets you in her head.I am sorry though, sometimes it just is over and you have to realize that as much as you like her you deserve someone who likes you back just as much and that she is out there. Thats the best advice I can give :/
could you answer mine too http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110515154145AABpujV
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youngplayer Says:
i was in the same situation. i know how you feel. feels like the world has no meaning. you look outside on a sunny day but you feel like crap inside. Just dont be too needy. major turn off. when you talk to her dont talk about the situation. make her feel good in the conversation. Like ross jeoffries said. the more fun you have the more you F@#K. meaning woman are emotional. you have to be the person she met a long time ago. something changed. be more fun. make her LAUGH. dont worry about the situation. it will only stress you out. Hope it helps.
