Question by Fabian: how should i win back my ex girlfriend’s trust n convince her to give me a 3rd chance! help please im goin mad
4 yers back me & my ex “A” met up & we got 2gether, i was her 1st love & she was mine too & was the 1st time she let a guy come close to her & was the first time i had ever held a girl in my arms, it was amazing, i still feel her till this day, we went out for almost a year but broke up coz there were rumors bout me playin around though it was never true & she believed her friends, so we decided we would remain freinds, but i moved on & we stopped callin or talkin, i got another girl after 6 months, broke up a month later, now 2 years after me & my ex “A” broke up i text her on her cell one day & instantly we clicked then we started calling eachother & clicked more, and then i asked her out & we started dating again, now heres the messed up part, we went out but there were many mis-understandings, mainly from my side, i never made an effort to understand how she felt, one month before it was a year for us we broke up coz i flirted with her friend though i did not mean to, please help
Best answer:
Answer by Italian Stallion
Choose NOT to win her back. Instead of going through this vicious cycle for a 3rd time, find somebody else. You both obviously don’t understand each other, so don’t waste ur time.
Do the right thing 
- Stallion
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9 Responses
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19 weeks pregnant <3 Says:
call her and tell her exactally how you feel. If you feel so strongly about it im sure when you show her your emotions towards her it will come across real and she will hopefully want to try again.
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DooWopKid Says:
Stop thinking with the wrong head.
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Idontknowdoyou Says:
Write her an HONEST letter that just lays it all out.. Good luck. If you LOVE her and want her go for it. If you just don’t want to be lonely, don’t use her for that.
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Feeling Guilty? Says:
Ooh, dramatic! You flirted with her friend but didn’t mean to? That doesn’t make any sense. Anyway, tell her to get rid of all of her friends. It seems to me that they are the root of all of your relationship problems.
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dArK BluE! Says:
boring
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getitright Says:
do you still love her?
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tru karma Says:
hmm your first love doesnt sound prepared for the real world.you know what dont loose any sleep over her.she will figure it out if you are really her true love but if in the meantime have you heard the saying if you love something set it free and if it comes back it was meant to be and if it doesnt it wasnt. you must let life run its course. now that you read that pick yourself up you love sick fellow and get on with your life accomplish what you need to ,to succeed and by the time you ve succeeded maybe she ll be there for you.just remain friends or even move away.she needs space to decide what she wants.ok.now think positively and happiness will come your way,if youthink negatively saddness will come your way.take care now and be honest to yourself and others.
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AL-jay Says:
Being her first love and vice versa, it’s likely you both loved each other when you were really young, maybe 14, 15, 16… Now that you both have grown up a bit, it is a little different from teen crushes of those past years. If you are seeking to develop a REAL relationship with her, of which i’m sure you do, you have to take the time to understand her feelings and respect her accordingly. And please you have to put much effort to STOP flirting when you “did not mean to.” Cheers!
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nana Says:
The question is do u really love her?? If u do,then the keyword is sacrifice. Just give her the best sacrifice that you never did in your life. Thats all. Then its up 2 her if she wants to accept u. Find ur mistake. Learn from it and change it. take a risk and make a lil’ bit sacrifice. Believe me it’ll the best experience in ur life.
