Question by : How Do You Get Your Pregnant Ex Girlfriend To Fall For You Again ?
Well my pregnant girlfriend and I broke up about a week ago ( I’m the father ) . If you read my previous question you’ll know what happened .. well she says that she needs time apart and that she doesn’t want to be around me. We talk about going on trips and me getting a better job and moving to her home town and buying baby stuff ect . Like if we’re still a couple .. I truly want to make this work and get her to realize that I can be the best man for her and father for my child. Her hormones are raging , one min we’re smiling and then the next min she’s like get away from me. If you read the previous question you see . I paid my ticket , got insurance and taking care of business. How can I get her to fall in love with me again ? She’s talking about moving back with her parents and her sister seems to be putting stuff in her head , her sister is pregnant too and since her baby father is no good to her she wants to drag my girl into it and make her think I’m no good either and that they should both see other ppl .. I guess misery needs company .. I want to win her back and get her to see that we can make it through this together .. thanks , for your advice .
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Answer by PotHead
make her pregnant again.
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38 Responses
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Bill Upton Says:
Get a real good job.
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Ethan Isaac Says:
tell tha hoe that she got yor kid and that it’b dumb az shid 2 break up ur family
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aaa Says:
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Daniel Says:
Sneak a cup in her toilet and wait until she takes a piss. After which, take the cup and spread the piss all over your body, and make sure on your face. She’ll be swooning over you in no time.
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Sam A Says:
Start off with woooooing her……..stop by her place for a sec just to drop off flowers or her fav food. Then give her a kiss and say enjoy and leave….. Do small things…..its what counts……..but don’t do it just once keep it up. when you get paid go get her some baby clothes or something for the baby to show u care…. so many ways to get her back….. u can do it
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rad Says:
Invest in a box of condoms.
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Tom Thumb Says:
Money!
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Mε Wαиt Cσσkiε♥ Says:
First of all just let her have a few weeks space to herself. then call her up and ask her if you can vist or her something. then see what goes on from there
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elizabeast1 Says:
be nice and do everything you can do to support that baby and her. show her that you care! if you care about her and that baby she will take you back
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idontknow! Says:
just try and cope with all tht, u hav to show her ur gonna b there no matter what. bring her candy when she wants it, and be there for ur baby. I bet if you really tried hard and got a good job and showed her how much u care, she will fall back into ur arms again.
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Jeremy Says:
You have to give her some space , and show her you aren’t a loser. Send her money for baby items and prove you can be a good father and can respect her wishes for space. If you push , she will keep moving farther away. She has to think she can choose and not have it forced down her throat. Giggity
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Ryanne Says:
do the best you can for her,buy her stuff look after her , then when the baby is born show her how good father you can be .Dont mess this up she is carrying your child ,look after her make her feel safe with you anc secure, a pregant woman will not want a man that doesnt have a job beacuse she will have to care for someone else and is really scared .She must of loved you once ,but now she has got to care for someone else and that is going to be hard be helpfull .Good Luck With Having A Child
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Jessie Ray Says:
tell her its all or nothing. your not dealing with her shit
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tactius Says:
do something amazing to show her you love her, if you can sing or play guitar then serenade her if not then either go on radio or tv and proclaim Your love for her or even if possible the propose to her! hope this helps
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Draven Says:
I think you need to sit her down and tell her exactly as u said, Look i understand your hormones are taking over alot and that everything is complicated right now but look im the father and im not like ur sisters baby daddy i WILL take care of you two, i love you and only care for you and im willing to do whatever it takes to make you happy. Your sister is miserable right now and you may not realize this but shes trying to drag you down into her unhappy life, you need to think for yourself and realize whats really best for you. I belive that we can work this out and that we can be a family, if you just let me. If ur not engaged, maybe propose….that could prove to her you really mean buisness and that you love her. I really hope it works out.
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Deepak Says:
no romantic things no begging no asking her or talking to her frnds or nyone about it what ever you think you should do do the oopposite
make her feel that she misses you dont text her or call nd begging her to come back and telling her that you will change dont do that make tell that your happy with her decision and break up was a good idea
she must not been messaging you …you must be really thinking why but the best part is she is the one actually thinking why your not messaging is he with sumoneelse…..make her feel like that oneday she will realise and she will talk to you have faithtell her dis
“hey how are you hope your doing jus fine am sorry if i overeacted about the break up its jus it took a while for me to accept that your not in my life but if your happy with the decision you talk so why do you think i have a problem with it i always wanted you to stay happy anyways all the best for your life ahead and i dont regret that i ever dated you byee all de best”
jus sent her dis and see her reaction dude !!! r -
Steve Whitman Says:
Leave her alone. If she misses you, then you have a shot. if not, nail her sister or best friend adn get them to tell her how amazing you are in bed. Maybe then she will want you back
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Pedo Bear Says:
push her
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Lauralee Costello Says:
u could give her flowers and a box of chocolates with a bunch of roses and say what u truly feel inside (but not about the sister thing, that u need to keep to yourself) tell her that u will stay by herside no matter what and shes the best thing thats ever happened to u and u would be the luckiest guy in the world if she took u back!
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Stanton Murray Says:
Punch her stomach and fuck her up the ass.
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V.JJ Says:
well have you tried to reasure her that your are trying to be there for her and that she the only one for you. maybe take her on a date and tell her that she can do what she thinks is right for her and the baby but that you love her and will be the best boyfriend and father you can be.
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Jayj Jayj Says:
you should probley be looking more into talking care of your child or your un born child you need to stop trying to look forward too getting another girl get ready to take care your un-born child but reqally women like to see men take care of themselves and there buissness we like to see men impress us
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Lexi Says:
first of all if ur the father u should be doin more to help ur child n even though ur gf is avoydin u she just wants u to do the right things by her and ur son/daughter so get it together to see her again
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scvideoking Says:
A. You can’t let her anywhere near her sis
B.she can’t move
C. be patient she and the kid are gonna be hell to take care of
D.Tell her You have MYkid, MY kid if your not going to listen to me im going to take (him/her) and leave
E.Tell her if she doesn’t stay with the man trying to take care of her and his/her baby then shes not a real parent -
seamus Says:
romance her; take her out on dates; buy her little presents
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P. H. Says:
Propose to her.
Promise her you will be there to support her and your child.
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Wiiguy Says:
The easiest way to get back with her, without you feeling bad about being rejected, is sending a letter. Maybe just a couple of words like “Sorry, forgive me” or something like that, mail it to her, check your texts and postbox every second, and buy her gifts.
Hope this helped
EDIT: There is some idiot that is thumbs downing every answer. This won’t benefit you at all, and your answer will NOT be picked!
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Phyl Mar Says:
Propose marriage and offer to take care of her and the child until death do you part.
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continue Says:
How too! Leave it alone & while she’s in her pregnancy state she will be thinking of the father.If you leave her be it will return to you.If you become a nuisance her sister will be right!
Do show interest and concern at a distance,but im warning you if you even look like a stalker…I promise if you do this,she will come to you.She’s going to need you eventually.Her sister is concerned for her,but theres only so much she can do and say.In the end you will win! -
Greg L Says:
You got to understand that whatever mess up between you and her the first time can’t happen the next time but in order to caught her heart again well that will be up to her but as for you just be your self and be the father of your child if it is meant for you and her to get back than you know your love for each other is real and true.
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B Says:
She is telling you flat out that the major problem she has with you is that you act jealous, so you need to stop whatever you are doing that is making her say that. You have crossed a boundary with her and you have to admit that instead of blaming her “hormones” or her families influence.
Once you can demonstrate that you are not going to act in a jealous way she will give you a second chance with the other stuff. Make sure you also follow through with the other stuff as well but the main thing here is that she is telling you exactly what you need to do and you are not really listening to what she is saying.
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Lis Says:
Oh wow she are really strange!! well i think that u should get a good job, i dk she should be happy because you want to keep the baby, now days nobody want to do that; ( if u know what i meant),
U cant make a person love you or fall in love that just happen in a moment , you cant predicted or make it up, talk to her and tell her how you feel. Good Luck she should be really so happy because u seen a great man:) -
yuyu Says:
Treat her good. even if what she says is wrong, agree with her. Unless its something really wrong. Just prove to her your the man to be with!
please answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110429130224AAzeI4n -
Nicky Pink Says:
Mos of these answers on here is maaaad immature! Yall need to grow up cuz this guy is askin a serious question here!!!
Aright I don’t think I’m on expert on love but I think you need to put up with her for a while! Like u said, her hormones is goin crazy! You should sit down with her and ask her whats wrong with her and ask why she don’t love u no more. Or compliment her. Think of the first time she fell in love with u! Try to think back and see if u have changed in appereance (maybe u got a hair cut that she didn’t like?) or in personality. Try to be ur old self again. Maybe then she’ll accept u back!
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Thelightsdark Says:
You can’t force her to do anything she is not ready to do. You have to realize that for her to be pregnant with your child and have broken up with you, things must really not have been looking good. No girl wants to be a single mother. You need to give it time and show her over time that you can be a better boyfriend. You need her to see that she is the most important thing in your life and your top priority. Ask her if she needs help with anything, how she’s feeling, offer to pick things up for her at the store, just little gestures that show you care. You don’t need to go overboard and shower her with gifts, she’ll know your just trying to get her back. You need to be genuine and prove yourself to her. The only way to get her back is to not give up on her and start treating her badly or ignoring her. If you continue to prove yourself over time, she will know your serious and not just putting on a show. She’s carrying your child so she’s going to be in your life for ever, no matter what. You have time to prove yourself, and make sure that when that baby comes you be the best father you can possibly be. Another thing that may help, make sure that you are being helpful and kind in front of her sister as well so her sister will stop pushing her away from you and instead push her toward you.
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the ~maiden~ xanz Says:
i would give her some space to miss you. Pandering to her or trying to buy her with flowers and gifts and other material offerings rarely works, and never for the right reasons.
Logic also does not often work, trying to convince her of what is right or best for the baby may eventually get her to cave, but that’s not a good basis for a genuine and healthy relationship with her.
No matter what she says or does, continue to be involved as the father, to plan for your child’s future. Whether or not you become her husband or her boyfriend, you are still about to be a father.
i think the best you can do is let her experience her pregnancy for a little while with no pressure and no heroic efforts to win her back. She needs time to reflect on who you are, what she would be giving up if she were to lose you. She needs to miss you and then be the one to initiate contact.
i know it sounds like a game, but i’ve been pregnant and hormones do not suddenly turn us into raging she~devils. She should not be allowed the excuse that she is pregnant to treat you in a “go away, come back” kind of crazy making war. Being pregnant is not an excuse to be fickle or rude or insensitive to you.
Good luck to her seeing other people. Most guys are not so into dating a girl who is expecting a baby with another man. You can point out her sister’s motives for trying to get her to reject you and then you can let her do as she pleases while making it clear that you will not be waiting for her to make up her pregnant mind about whether or not to have you in her life forever.
It’s not all about you being a good father/husband, but about attraction, and not being constantly available and influenced by her whims is a good start. She needs to make a commitment to make it work or cut you lose and maybe seeing life without you for a few weeks would help her see that giving it an honest try with you is the most fair and logical thing to do.
She is only worth it if she chooses to remain with you of her own free will, so trying to “make” her love you is not only impossible, but will not likely get you an authentic relationship even if it works.
Sit back, relax and wait a little… but not too long. If she doesn’t want to honor the fact you are about to be parents together, then do your part as a father and see others too. What is fair for her is fair for you, and one thing most of us hate is to think someone can actually be happy without us. It often will make us curious, make us wonder and make you a little more attractive, which is what you need at the moment.
good luck
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Adam Beemer Says:
Maybe the baby isn’t yours and that is why she is fighting the feeling. I know that pregnant girls have hormonal shifts but they aren’t that major. she is obviously trying to not fall bak in love
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kindra108 Says:
Say you don’t want to let her go and try not to have make sex and just try to say im sorry ffor the wrong I did
