Question by Reisse M: How do I win my Ex Girlfriend Back? HELP!?
me & my ex gf split up about 6week ago and i can’t stop thinking about her! she said that we should be friends & maybe in the future we could get back together!
should i start talking 2 her again on msn or should i text her & what should i say??
do i play it cool n not seem bothered or do i start the convo??
or i leave it 4 like a month & c what happens!
has any1 got n e ideas for me to get her back? all ideas/sugestions welcome!
just don’t know what 2 do??
here’s a picture of the two of us!
http://s608.photobucket.com/albums/tt169…
thanks!
Best answer:
Answer by Eshan
You should tel her to real states in your heart,Then you can win her heart.
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14 Responses
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Luminous.eyez Says:
maybe you could talk to her about your feelings 4 her. and what you want.
if you open your heart to her a little she maybe she will feel the feelings she had for you b 4.
and u never no, she could b having the same problems as you about you
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Rachel P Says:
If she was deadly serious that she thought you weren’t going to get back together then she would have told you straight up.
In this particular instance, I feel that you should just take it easy and be friends for now but make sure you do things together like go out and spend time together.
This could make her think that you two could be really good together again.
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Sam Says:
You should probably find the reason why she broke up with you first and work it out from there, just be your self.
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rameshvermapara Says:
First rethink ups and downs then act.
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missy Says:
i had this with my parnter and at the start i kept phoning him he told me we would never get back together as his feelings had changed, i was broken. i then started to act as if i was moving on with my life and that my plans didnt include him. within 4 days of me changing he came home. that was nearly 2 years ago now and we have been really happy. i cant promise you will have the same outcome but if you play it cool she may realise how much you really mean to her.
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Patricia C Says:
Tell her you are sorry for what you did and you want do it again and that she’s the beautiful girl you ever went out with ok anything else send me or email me ok bye.
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Martha Evans Says:
You might have to accept that she is trying to break up without hurting you by saying maybe you could get back together in the future. If I were you, I would try to accept it and move on but try to stay friends and think of her as a friend. Call her instead of texting her–it’s more personal. If you stay friends and it’s meant to be, it will work out on it’s own. I don’t think you should worry about it. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.
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howard Says:
You know what to do? Go out and find yourself a new girlfriend. Don’t be a sap. If she wants you back, she’ll get jealous of your new girlfriend and come get you – if she doesn’t want you back you will be better off without her. It’s a hard world; you need to be strong to survive.
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kelly Says:
y did youz finish?
you dont want to force her so dont ask her straight out to get back. play it cool but not so cool that she thinks you arent bothered. its been six weeks so she might have moved on or might not have the same feelings anymore so dont get your hopes up. i say you sud txt her and jus have a normal convo, ask her wat shes been up to etc.. then after a week if you think theres a chance then ask her to the cinema say theres a film u wana c bu no one il go. then when you see her if you get butterflies then ask her out again but dont do it face to face cus you dont wani put her on the spot. n remember theres plenty more fish in the seax
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Salma M Says:
Why did you split up? And who split up with who? Either ways since its been 6 weeks already I think you should tell her how you really feel- us girls really appreciate that! Maybe you could take her somewhere special when you’re telling her that has a special memory for both of you? Btw you two look very cute together so give it another shot!
And please do vote me best answer!
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Luke Says:
First Step:
Try to make contact with her. Don’t be angry and just chill and say that you’re happy to be alone. (Listen to me) She will eventually think that you already forgot her and later she could get in love with you again.Second step:
Think about, what made it to break up with you. (Bad habits, too much arguing,…) If you have no idea, try to find out by talking to her. (It’s ok to talk, why she broke up)Third step:
Try to make this things better. It won’t take a day to make it better, but maybe weeks. And remember: Always try to be beautiful and nice in front of her. (Not too nice)Fourth step:
If she starts to ask you a question like:”if I asked you to be with me again, would you?”, that’s a good sign.(Answer should be yes) BUT DO NOT ASK HER THE SAME QUESTION. THAT’S A MINUS POINT.Fifth step:
Try to be with her a lot(but not everyday) and be like old friends. She will eventually start to like you again and possibly be with you again.This steps are made by me and by my experiences. I did all steps ofcourse, but at the end I moved into another city and I can’t do it anymore. So good luck and I really hope you get her back. You two are a really nice couple.
Note:
There are million beautiful girls around the world.
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Ne Says:
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There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
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Fred Jones Says:
You can get your ex back. Many people including a friend of mine have done this.
My friend could get his ex back following this guideline from a tough situation after a nasty break up:
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George Says:
Hi
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
Get Up And Go Out
Get out of the house. Call your friends and go have some fun. You do not have even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you have to get out and really bond with your friends again. This will do your soul good as well as make your ex realize what an amazing person she has lost.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!
