Hi I need help try to get my ex girlfriend back?
Ok me and my ex have been dating for 8yr we have a 2yr old son that we love so much about 2wk ago she started to hang out with this new friend a girl I only met 2x I really don’t like her but anyways I call her on that saturday to see what she up two and she said she at her mom house and she sleeping over that night I said ok think we didn’t wont to be there because of the fight and some of my friends where coming over my phone lost call and then a few min later i get a txt saying she moving back in with her mom and that we are over I call her up and ask her what going on and she start to say she does feel happy anymore so me like a dum *** get mad and we start to fight- Fast forward I get off work and she come to the house with her mother and the friend O yeah did i say i don’t like the friend and me and her start arguing and her mom jump in the fight I was so piss that i kick the mom out of my house and the friend I really don’t like some1 call the cop and she take some of her stuff and leave we fight for a at lease to days and then we start to clam down arguing that the back story……now her where am at I still love her and I miss my son we are working out day I keep him and day she has him but I really want them home with me there my family and when I talk about us she get mad and say it over but she txt me and i call her some time she at work and his to go to publix or wal-mart and I will go there and we talk and some what play around like old time but I see the way she look at me that look when we frist started dating but when ever I talk to her about us or tell her how I feel she get mad and say it over between us I can take the mix sign anymore I think I read all the how to get your ex back site and blog but no one his advice on a 8yr relationship lot of the are 1 to 2yr’s
so what do I do back off and try later or should I give up and move on I really love her and I don’t no what to do
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Robbie Says:
if i knew the answer to that id tell you, i want my ex girlfriend back but that probably isn’t going to happen, i was only with her like 4 months but she was the only person i had true feelings for no other girl has come close, im not going to ramble on anyway.. good luck buddy.
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Melissa Says:
Hi! females are weird sometimes, we like to get attention. Maybe you didn’t give enough attention. 8 yrs is a long time and sometimes couples get bored with each other. Maybe she just needs space, so give her some space & time. I know you don’t like the sound of that because you want to know what she’s doing. I really don’t know why she’s acting that way, but after awhile do sometime nice for her, maybe you have a bad habit and you can try to work on that habit. You have make her feel secure, praise her ever now & then, like tell her she’s a good mother. Don’t say anything negative to her cuz that will make things worst. I know you don’t like her friend but that’s another bad thing to do is dislike her friends, get to know this friend and maybe get together and hung out. it usually turns out better, cuz right now you dislike cuz your judging her, get to know this friend of hers.Another thing don’t ever disrespect the mother she can be a the monster but just suck it up and take it, because you want to be this girls life and that’s almost like your mother in law. just stay clam when you argue or fight next time. control your temper & your mouth. I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to disrespect my mother that would just get me mad and hurt me. let them say what ever they want maybe that’s all she needs is to let it out. Be a gentleman. They know they can piss you off next time just stay clam and tell her nice positive things during the argument. Good luck to you and I hope you guys get back together. Feel the LOVE.
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Jake Says:
No don’t back off. If you want to get her back you need to “strike while the iron is hot” so to speak…check out this site http://www.the-relationship-saver.info
It helped me immensley when I was trying to get my ex back (it’s a book)
Good luck!
