Question by Jack: Ex-Girlfriend? Materialistic or not? Worth it or not? to win her back or not?
hi i just want to to hear some of your thoughts. I had a girlfriend, we’ve been together for 3 months… i loved her so much that I courted her for like 5 months before she finally gave in.. during the time when i was still courting, she already hinted me that she is a materialistic girlfriend, but still I pursued her and then she finally fell in love with me… During our 3-month relationship, she did not have a job-unemployed (though she is a nurse). But I was so happy at first when we were together, except for the fact that there would be times that she would ask money from me, and she wants me to buy certain things which sometimes I would give her. There was also a time when she will borrow money from me, and I said I’ll lend her money (though I will not ask her to pay me) when my payday comes, she will agreed but still she’s disappointed cause she doesn’t want to go out with me or see until my payday comes or until I lend her the money. But I still loved her, text her always, call her even though I am busy, but there is also some time when I got tired but still I go on with my feelings. Also, we live far away from each other, like it would take 2 hours to get to their house. So mobile/text communication is very significant, she does not even ask how am i doing after work’s time, and she seldom greet me in the morning. I always take the initiative to greet her and text her. But she is so sweet when we are together, like it feels so good when she does it to met. But we broke up coz I can no longer felt that importance of love, all I know is that she thinks about is money. When we finally broke up, she got devastated that she is sorry for what she has done and wanted us to be reconciled again, she realized that she really loved me more than ever. My friend even asked me that we reconcile but I just gently decline coz I thought there is no love. But after 1 month of breakup, I just found out that she is already in a relationship with someone (with someone she know from the same college she went to-same class). I found out that the guy is working abroad and the guy promised her to pay for VISA fees and other fees just for her to work abroad and be with together. I mean, just 25 days ago, she was talking to my friend that she wanted to cry of our breakup, but after another 5 days she is in a relationship. I saw their profile in FB and I did saw that she is so happy, that she finally found the right one, even happier compared to the time when we are together. I just want to know if I am going to pursue her or not, win her back or not? Is this worth it? I’m not sure if this is love or pride/ego, but right now, I don’t feel good =(
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Answer by JessicaC
wow u seem like a pretty caring guy, you deserve better! forget her, move on foward with life, you guys only dated 3 months did you really get that attached to her? screw her you’ll find another wayy better girl than her. 
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